Four Day Wedding Ritual of Pakistan
Traditional Pakistani marriage celebrations lasts for four days.
First Day of the Celebration
On the first day, the bride and groom’s families each dress in yellow, and celebrate the upcoming nuptials separately. The betrothed couple will not see each other from this day until the ceremony.
The second day is reserved for a big celebration called Mendi that includes dancing and singing ancient songs. On this day, the groom’s family delivers the wedding dress to the bride’s family, and then her family takes the groom’s wedding attire to his family.
The bride’s family string hundreds of colored lights over and around their home, creating an ostentatious announcement of their daughter’s forthcoming marriage. Here, the bride-to-be receives a traditional henna staining of her hands and feet. This traditional Muslim art form invokes intricately designs to create beautiful symbolic patterns. The bride-to-be is waited on by her family while the henna stain dries overnight.
Third Day is the Marriage Ceremony
The wedding rites and ceremony in Pakistan take places on the third day. The Pakistani bride and groom who continue their traditions wear garments of red. The bride’s gown is very elaborate, as are her veil and jewelry. Men wear a distinctive traditional turban. After wedding vows are exchanged, the Holy Koran is held over the new bride’s head as she joins her husband’s family. The official paperwork is signed in the presence of an Islamic priest and the guests.
Fourth and Final Day of Wedding Program in Pakistan
On the fourth day, the couple hosts their first dinner as husband and wife. The groom’s family invites all of the guests to their home for a feast.